Dad’s race
I want to thank everyone for the prayers for my Dad and our family, they were felt. As many of you know, my Dad was admitted into MICU at Maricopa Medical Center last Friday with multiple organ failure due to sepsis from a nasty little bug called C. Diff. Dad was up and down all week, he had some bad days and some good days where it looked like he might recover and also looked promising he might go home. Thursday afternoon when we came to visit and the doctors were gathered around, Dad was alert and they were talking about his miraculous recovery. I was able to tell Dad how much his family loved him and that many people were praying for him. I also promised him if he got better and went home, we would never come back to the hospital. That very night, Dad went home, not to Prescott, but to be in Glory forever more. God had let us intervene enough and He created a situation to free my Dad of all pain and suffering forever; Dad had a catastrophic brain aneurism. God had fulfilled His promise, not mine. My brother flew in immediately from Las Vegas; he arrived and was able to see Dad in a very peaceful state while his physical body continued to live (Lyndon had drove out Saturday and stayed until Monday too).
My oldest sister from Nashville and my Dad’s little brother made arrangements and flew in. During their transit here, we had Dad transferred to Hospice of the Valley near my house. It was a very peaceful and good environment for family to say their final good byes.
Dad and Mom’s pastor from Prescott Valley just happened to be camping 5 miles away from the hospice when we transferred Dad, so they immediately came to see Dad when he arrived. (The scriptures say that God goes before and after us) It was time for me to go the airport and Dad peacefully passed away when I was at the airport picking my sister and uncle up. My Dad was in the presence of the Lord and could no longer stay, why would he? I can only imagine how excited Dad was when Jesus said to him, “Welcome Gary, my good and faithful servant”.
Dad was finally Home in Heaven where he longed to be and by the blood of Jesus, it was possible to be seen righteous by God. My Dad ran the race, but Jesus won it for him 2000 years ago.
Today we will be visiting my Aunt Margaret’s burial spot in Chandler and then we will be heading to Prescott Valley for the viewing and the memorial service. (If you want to attend on Sunday, please let me know and I will get you the details) We plan on having a grave side service in Paducah, Kentucky on January 26 or February 9th, we are still deciding. My Mom’s request is to have Dad’s favorite song “Amazing Grace” played on the bag pipes at the service, the song rings out Dad story.
“Amazing Grace, how sweet the sound,
That saved a wretch like me….
I once was lost but now am found,
Was blind, but now, I see.
T’was Grace that taught…
my heart to fear.
And Grace, my fears relieved.
How precious did that Grace appear…
the hour I first believed.
Through many dangers, toils and snares…
we have already come.
T’was Grace that brought us safe thus far…
and Grace will lead us home.
The Lord has promised good to me…
His word my hope secures.
He will my shield and portion be…
as long as life endures.
When we’ve been here ten thousand years…
bright shining as the sun.
We’ve no less days to sing God’s praise…
then when we’ve first begun.
“Amazing Grace, how sweet the sound,
That saved a wretch like me….
I once was lost but now am found,
Was blind, but now, I see.
We were blessed to have such a wonderful Dad, we are glad he is finally home with our Lord and Savior, Jesus the Christ. Please rejoice with our family and be glad in the hope of Jesus.
Love,
Clayton

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Clayton, Our prayers go out to you and your family at this difficult time. May God comfort you and your family. We all at the track are thinking of you and look forward to your return. I lost my Dad in 1988, he was a young 54 years old. I know what your feeling. If there is anything Ryan and I can do, please do not hesitate to call. (623-7634-4343) God Bless your family.
Comment by Terry & Ryan Denton — January 14, 2008 @ 1:59 pm
Clayton,
I’m so sorry for your loss. No words can express the loss of a mother or father…I know. My prayers are with you and your family. I would like to be informed of the memorial in Paducah. God Bless, Christie
Comment by Christie Bell — January 24, 2008 @ 7:41 am